Have you ever thought about doing a spell for love? Right now, with the Moon growing to full, the conditions are perfect to do a spell to bring love into your life.
Love spells can be simple – wishes, intentions, desires. Sometimes, all you need to do to bring love into your life using a spell is to set your intentions and keep your energy positive. Other times, though, you might feel like you need a bit more power behind your love spell, in order to bring a lasting romantic love to you.
Spells are all about using different elements to help to increase the power of your intention and attraction. A love spell should be specific enough to bring you the partner of your dreams, but open enough to allow the Universe to bring you the best partner—and the best partner might not be the one you are focused on.
My advice when performing a love spell is to avoid specifying a particular person; focus instead on the characteristics and attributes your perfect partner would have.
When creating your love spell, you will need the following items:
a red pen
nice stationary paper
rose essential oil or rose water to annoint your candle
a red or pink candle—or both.(red for romantic love, pink for more of a playful, innocent type of love)
matches (to light the candle)
cherry, strawberry, or honey incense
Do this spell to find love when the moon is going from new to full, growing bigger or waxing. This phase helps to GROW things in your life.
Sit down with an open heart and pure intention to create your spell to bring love into your life. Use your red pen to make a list of the characteristics you want your perfect partner to have. As I mentioned before, it’s best NOT to focus on a particular person and let the Universe use the energy of your love spell to bring the best partner for you, to you.
I would start the love spell out with something like:
My dearest Universe, I ask of thee,
to bring me love, so mote it be.
I am ready for you to bring
my romantic life partner, my soul mate, my twin flame
to me.
I trust that you will guide me in my choices
bringing me the best person
the one that is meant for me.
I am so grateful to you for all the love you bring into my life,
and I hope that you will bring my one true love to me soon.
My perfect partner would be…
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
(Think about what you want from a partner and make a list, something like the following.)
My perfect soul mate would be:
kind
funny
romantic without having to be reminded
into foreign films
responsible
financially stable
well-educated
a bit of a book nerd
loves music
kinky but not over the top
good in bed
thoughtful
responsive
cute
into magic
faithful
adventurous
well-endowed
healthy/takes care of physique
attentive
likes to cuddle
likes children/wants children/doesn’t want children (whichever fits for you)
outdoorsy
artistic
a handy man…
Write your list including characteristics that are important to you. And really, be thorough. The more specific you are about what you want, the easier it is for the Universe to bring that person to you!
Take your candle(s) and poke three holes in each one. Drop just a couple of drops of the rose oil or rose water onto the candle, and rub it in clockwise, all the time, thinking about meeting your perfect partner or mentally repeating your spell (the words above can be modified to fit your situation).
Light the candles (make sure they are in a safe place that you can allow them to burn out naturally). Leave them to burn the whole day, if possible. If you really want to get the energy flowing, get a candle that is meant to burn for three days and use it in your ritual.
Light the incense, and keep it near your candle. If possible, keep the incense burning for as often as you safely can for three days.
PLEASE BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHERE YOU PUT YOUR CANDLES and incense. DO NOT LET THEM BURN WITHOUT SUPERVISION. DON’T POUR OIL OVER YOUR CANDLE AFTER IT IS LIT. Extinguish, when you need, by snuffing the candle rather than blowing it out.
During the three days that your spell is running, try to make a note of all of the love that is in your life. Write about it in your gratitude journal – start a gratitude journal if you don’t have one.
Also, remember to do only one spell per moon cycle. During this moon cycle, from today to the next full moon, ONLY focus on this love spell. If it is really something that you would like to focus on for multiple moon cycles, go ahead and repeat this ritual every month right as the moon is turning full.
You can also call in different goddesses, if you’d like. Of course, Venus is THE go-to goddess to call on to bring love into your life! Venus’ day of the week is Friday, and you should offer her roses on your altar space.
Or, if you prefer to work with angels, you can work with Archangel Chamuel to help you to bring a new love into your life.
Other angels to help with your love life and love spells are listed here.
Remember, be positive that your spell will work—in DIVINE TIMING. It might take a few moon cycles for your love spell to work. Don’t give up and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t fit your wishlist. When you trust that the Universe is going to bring you a wonderful partner, you don’t have to take someone who just doesn’t do it for you. Pass on anyone who you don’t vibe with, but make sure that you aren’t so focused on one person that you miss out on a gem sent directly to you from the Universe.
I hope that this love spell works for you! If you use it and it brings love into your life, please let me know!
I did this spell before I met my hubby—more than 20 years ago! For me, it was quite effective!